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It’s a question which many have asked at least one time in their life. Will I fall in love? And if so, will it be with the right person?
And who is the right person anyway, is there actually one right person or are there many right people throughout our life? Or are we destined to walk that path of life alone. How do we really know for sure if we are with the right person?
And another question, what is the best love you could receive? Is it the classic example of the elderly couple who have been together for over 50 years and never go to bed angry? – Now that’s loyalty.
Is it the couple who actively communicate and always give and take – Now that’s commitment.
Is it the young romantic couple who are so into each other and carelessly roam freely and do what they want when they want spontaneously because they naturally want to – Now that’s passion.
Or is it connection, when one person totally gets another person and you don’t even have to say anything, you just know what that person is thinking and feeling anyway – Now that’s almost spiritual.
Or is it friendship, you just plain as rain enjoy that person’s company – Now that’s companionship.
Or is it the couple who have been through so many ups and downs and never question looking after each other through sickness and health – Well that’s unconditional.
Hmm it could even be a collection of all the above and if it is, wow you have the perfect combination. It all sounds like heaven doesn’t it?
But what if you are alone and you don’t have anyone. What do you do with yourself? Is it all that bad? The answer is No. It’s not that bad. Of course it could get lonely but it’s not the end.
If you are alone, then now is the time to get your tools out and do some home improvements, in other words, work on yourself. I believe the best thing you could ever do for yourself is to love yourself first. If you are not happy with something about yourself then try your best to fix it. It could be the best gift you could give someone else when that right person does come along.
Of course no one’s perfect and even if you did fix yourself as much as you could I’m sure there would still be some flaws but you know it’s better than giving the other person the worst side of yourself.
Relationships they say were never meant to be easy, why? Because no one bothers to fix themselves first before they enter them. Now we know why so many breakups happen.
Of course not every break up happens for the above reason, I’m sure there are many many more reasons.
Ok so even if you are already in a relationship don’t get too comfortable, it still doesn’t hurt to do some home improvements, what have you got to lose anyway? Nothing, just a bit of your precious time but there will so much more to gain afterwards. How many stale boring couples do you know that have been together for a long time and have stopped working on themselves because they have become so comfortable? Quite a lot isn’t there.
So even if you are with someone, don’t stop working on yourself, pull your finger out and get to work. Is the washing ever done once? No. Are the dishes only ever done once? No.
Just like housework, relationships need maintenance too.
May your day be filled with light and many blessings.
